I was about to start off with “Last week I wrote about…” and then a little sleuthing reminded me that it’s been three weeks since I wrote anything. So. If you were ever looking to read a post about good time management you have COME to the right place, people.
Ahem. Three weeks ago I wrote about making time to rest when you’re tired, even if that means getting less sleep. For me, I need to get up early and spend time praying and reading my Bible every morning or I’m a wreck all day. Today I got up early to spend time with the Lord, and let me tell you: I am tired. The past two months have seen three family members in the hospital, two out-of-town trips, multiple meetings, and oh yeah – my normal life. Today my children were in RARE form. And I say “rare” quite loosely because truthfully, I wish it were rarer. Anyway my daughter starting things off with a bang by grabbing her nasty poopy diaper out from under her butt while I reached for a wipe and whipping it across the room and herself and her adorable outfit I just found hiding in a drawer and the carpet and my hand. (Do you want to know how nasty that diaper was? She had black beans last night.) My son – not to be outdone – screamed and threw things and yelled and hoarded toys and went batpoo crazy the whole time I was tutoring in my home. Things pretty much went downhill from there and at one point I texted Jeremy and told him I wanted to scream. And then I realized – I hadn’t screamed. Or yelled at my kids or anyone else, which to be honest, is a BIG deal for me. And even though I was going crazy inside, I realized that God had helped me treat my kids with true grace all day, and let me tell you – that does NOT happen on the days I sleep through my time with Him.
But I HATE getting up early. I am a natural night owl. Even on the days I wake up really early I can still stay up til 1 or 2 in the morning without realizing I’m tired but then when that alarm starts going off at 6:00 – I realize it real good. So I have to find ways to make my mornings easier, and maybe some of these will help you, too.
So without further ado….
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- Give it a fair shot. Don’t tell me you just can’t do mornings until you’ve actually, honestly tried. If you want to wake up early you have to go to bed a little earlier, or if nothing else, at a consistent time. You need to actually get up early consistently for at least a week to really give it a fair shot. So don’t try for a few days and give up, or try for a couple weeks without ever being consistent. It won’t work – trust me.
- Set your coffee the night before. Most of your basic coffee makers have a timer setting. You can get everything ready and have your coffee brew for you at whatever time so you can literally wake up and smell the coffee. I even drink decaf and it still helps. For a while I went through a phase where I put my half and half and sugar in my mug and then stuck it in the fridge the night before, too. I got over that. Don’t drink coffee? Freeze half a bottle of water, fill it and add lemon, then let it thaw overnight so you can drink something cold and refreshing when you first wake up. Drink fancy coffee like a pour over or a French press? Well….clapclapclap. Not sure how to help you. Sorry.
- Adjust your thermostat. I like to sleep with the air pretty cold because I sweat like pig at night (did you need to know that? Sure.) but it’s really, really, really hard to get out of a warm cozy bed and step into some frigid air. So if your air has the fancy sleep setting thing that will go up and down for you – rock it. If not, do what I do and drag yourself out of bed, cut the thermostat back up a few degrees, then go get back in bed for the mandatory 15-20 minutes of snooze-button-beating. When it’s time to get up, it won’t be so hard.
- Pick out your clothes the night before. Maybe this takes you back to elementary school but so be it. Let’s have a show of hands from all the ladies who spend way too long staring at their clothes before deciding on one of the same 10 outfits you rotate allthefreakingtime. Check the weather and lay out your clothes the night before – jewelry, shoes, underwear, all of it.
- Consider showering at night. I know I know I know – your hair looks gross when you do that and showers help you wake up. Me too. BUT it really super sucks to have to choose between doing my devotions or getting to shower alone and do something really self-pampering like….I don’t know….shave the forest of my legs so I can wear shorts again. Plus I find a night shower helps me relax. At least give it a go. Maybe you just can’t hack it and if so I understand, but be prepared to wake up a little earlier.
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- Turn on a light. Immediately, as soon as your first alarm goes off. Even if you don’t get up right away, the light will help you wake up a little. Sunlight is the best, but if you can’t drag yourself to the window – turn on your lamp.
- Bonus: play on your phone: This is a slippery slope for me so take it with a grain of salt. You know how they say staring at a screen before bed will wire your brain and keep you awake longer? I find the opposite is true. When I’m just having a really hard time waking up after my obligatory first two alarms (I’m not the only one who does this, right?) sometimes I’ll start browsing instagram or playing Words with Friends. It seems to help me wake up. The only problem is how addictive it is – sometimes before I know it I’ve been on my phone for 15 minutes and then I’m rushing to get my coffee, get dressed, and do my devotions before Malachi comes traipsing into the room at 6:50 (on the flipping dot, every day, WHY?!) telling me “I got pee-pee my diaper” and “It’s almost breakfast time!” So maybe set a timer or something so you don’t get sucked into the iPhone void? I don’t know.
And there you have it. Some things that I hope will help make your early mornings a little easier. When I consistently do all of the above every day (which is quite rare, trust me) I get going into a really good routine. But even just doing a couple is enough to help.